Vanessa Feltz has candidly revealed that she doesn’t think penis size matters when it comes to having good sex.
The TV star, 60, – who has been dating Ben Ofoedu, 49, since 2006 – said that success in the bedroom is more to do with ‘energy, foreplay and romantic titillation’.
She also cheekily quipped that she was attracted to Ben because of his ‘smile’, as she gave an insight into their close bond.
Honest: Vanessa Feltz has candidly revealed that she doesn’t think penis size matters when it comes to having good sex
She told The Sun: ‘All that really matters is the motion in the ocean!
‘It’s about the energy, foreplay and romantic titillation of the encounter, not the acreage, square footage, diameter or circumference.
‘While you want a man who is at least in a proportion – not vastly out of kilter with the shape of the rest of him – I do believe that if someone is very sexy, talented at what they do in the boudoir department and takes the time then the size just becomes much less relevant and pivotal.
Romps: The TV star, 60, – who has been dating Ben Ofoedu, 49 since 2006, said that success in the bedroom is more to do with ‘energy, foreplay and romantic titillation’
‘If you fall for a man and love him unconditionally, then his penis is just a part of him!’
She then encouraged women not to ‘take things at face value’ and to not ‘whip out their tape measure’ during a sexual encounter.
Last month Vanessa shared intimate details about her sex life with Ben.
Speaking in another candid interview, this Morning star revealed she and singer Ben do it ‘whenever and wherever we want’.
Honest: She said: ‘It’s about the energy, foreplay and romantic titillation of the encounter, not the acreage, square footage, diameter or circumference’
She shared: ‘I was peeling the vegetables for dinner one day, and ended up leaving a trail of celery and leeks for him, leading to me, spread-eagled.’
Vanessa told Closer magazine: ‘We have no kids in the house now, so we can do it whenever and wherever we want, and we do.’
She added: ‘I think it’s important to keep a sexual climate going. You can inject a bit of naughtiness into the most ordinary of things. ‘
Vanessa and Ben have been engaged for 15 years after meeting through their mutual friend – Boyzone star Keith Duffy.
Love: Vanessa and Ben have been engaged for 15 years after meeting through their mutual friend – Boyzone star Keith Duffy
After spending time with Vanessa in the Big Brother house in 2001, Keith decided to introduce her to Ben.
The couple got engaged in 2006 and were due to marry the following year and again in 2011 but have yet to tie the knot.
Between 1985 and 2000 Vanessa was married to Michael Kurer with whom she shares daughters Allegra Kurer and Saskia Kurer.
It’s not the first time Vanessa has candidly discussed her and Ben’s antics in the bedroom.
Speaking last March, the presenter said that the duo keep the spark alive by sending racy messages and it is her ‘duty’ to have saucy knickers.
Vanessa admitted that she wants her relationship with the Phats & Small vocalist to stay ‘good’ and not become ‘stagnant, boring and dreary’.
Vanessa added that ‘age is not an issue’ and that they both ‘feel an obligation’ to make an effort in their romance.
Old times: Vanessa’s first marriage to surgeon Dr. Michael Kurer ended in 2000 after he reportedly left her for another woman, 13-years after they exchanged vows (the former couple are pictured together in 1997)